Guys, What could he be thinking and how do I handle this if I want to stay together?

Stop crying. This jerk isn't worth your tears. Count your lucky stars you found out now what he is like rather than after you married him and it leads to even more heartache for you and your child. He is supremely selfish and most likely has a controlling and abusive personality. You deserve better than that. Don't waste your time with him or you will miss the many good things coming your way.