If a woman is a passive dater, does she have any grounds to complain about not finding a "good man"?

Nope, don't think she has much of a reason to complain, nor do guys who pick loser women (who are mean, angry, lie, cheat, are crazy, are engaged, separated or married). Some people settle, think they can't find anyone else and complain, and/or let their emotions override logic. Been there, done that, got rid of them, and don't have any reasons to complain!