Monday, July 11, 2011
My boyfriend took an out of town job and I am so sad.He didn't make me a part of his decision. What do I do?
wow! I thought i should be pissed my boyfriend is moving an hour away for the summer. Though he had plans to do that before we met. Worried that will take us backwards or he will start to forget about me during the week when im working. Super sad.(hes 23 and im 21 so way different than you two) BUT WOW im soooo sorry. See it really sounds like you shouldnt be with him..he says he wants to marry you one day and everything but he OBVIOUSLY cant handle that. Hes stuck on himself and is doing everything for himself!! Does ANY OF HIS decisions hes made MEET your standards of a husband one day? I doubt it. Hes not even close to being ready for marriage if hes pulling crap like this. He is taking you and your daughter for granted hardcore. I say explain to him what hes doing to you and that you love him and will do anything for him and stick things out but that obviously he doesnt and wont and you need someone who will equally take you into consideration. You need to be happy and hes NOT doing that. Im really sorry but hes soudning like a inconsiderate jerk. Your daughter needs a stable father figure and i know you know that. I actually didnt have a stable father figure at all..my mom left my dad cause he was being a douchebag and couldnt handle me and my mom and then he ran out of state no where to be found..and would appear at our house once in a while. Him coming or a night to see me and then leaving for months on end really effed with me. I cant have a boyfriend without going into 'hes going to leave me' mode if i dont hear from him in a couple days! So either have this dude in you and your daughters lives or NOT at all because you both dont deserve to have your emotoions effed with. Tell him to get his sh*t together or else he can forget about you guys because you deserve way better. He is 28..maybe its the age difference. Im told if the guy is your age hes not old enough. I think you might want to shoot for someone who has experience with long term relationships..something along those lines! Good luck to you and your daughter. Try to look at the bright side, at least you arent married to him now and he pulls something like this :) <3
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